| Username |
adam123 |
| Location |
Manhattan, New, USA |
| Signed
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20-04-2010 06:46 PM |
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Other |
| My Hair |
Brown |
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My Height |
5 Feet 8 Inches(175cm) |
| My Built
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Average |
| My Education |
MA/MS/MBA |
| Ethnicity |
I will tell later |
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| Religion |
I will tell later |
| Marital
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Single |
| Smoking |
No Smoke |
| Drinking |
Light/social |
| Sex |
Male |
| Looking
for |
Female |
| Age |
38 years old |
| Zodiac
Sign |
Leo |
| Current
Rating |
not rated |
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| First of all I just want to ask very important question if you don't mind: Are you a real person? Are you telling me the truth? Are you honest, sincere and to be trusted? Please answer me truthfully and honestly before we start in our communication, because I am not here to play game and I will not waste my time for games and dishonesty. Thank you so very much for taking out time to read my profile. I feel so blessed because a thought was channeled to my direction. Every journey is set out with a well defined destination in mind and it takes courage and conscious determination to arrive there. At this point, it obvious that am willing to set out for this journey of faith and it’s imperative that the desired destination should be well defined. I like to make something Clear as you read this. My intention should be made known early enough so that you could be able to know where am heading . The only reason I am here and ready to devote time to make all the necessary communication is because I want a partner and desire to get closer to and see if there’s chemistry to yoke heart together because nothing works until someone work on it. What I am looking for is someone who will get to know me, who like me.. is tired of being lonely, who desires a sincere relationship, who is willing to love again irrespective of the painful memories of the past., who is willing to merge her soul with mine and her heart with mine. Someone to share and spend the rest of my life with. You see, I feel there are few very basic but essential elements of a relationship.. (1) Identifying the need to be in a relationship (2) decision and readiness to contribute to it success 3) HONESTY (4) TRUST (5) MUTUAL RESPECT, (6)DEVOTIONAL COMMITEMENT WITH A READINESS TO MAKE SACRIFICES. knowing fully well that a Gold must go through fire before it can be purified and graded They are also to a degree sequential. I may choose First honesty and then respect. They go hand in hand and without them any type of relationship, business, personal, family, whatever, is bound to fail. Anyone who is dishonest cannot be respected. Without showing respect, He or she is unlikely to be treated with honesty. Those are fundamental to trust which like respect is earned because honesty was first and was given. When trust is built and respect is earned and they are given and shared, then love and happiness is inevitable. When your love and trust were given, it’s more important than receiving a treasure. Then commitment becomes a part of the relationship. At that point, you promise and believe it will be forever. You can do this because you love and trust the other person and are committed to making a life to share together. I will try to be more specific. First, no one is perfect, especially me. I know this though, when the right person or person that seems right comes into your life you will know it. A connection happens and you just can't, or won't let go of them. Your whole life changes and all of the emptiness begin to fill up. It starts with the first touch, the first time you look into each other’s eyes, the very first time for everything becomes a moment to remember. Sometimes it happens quickly, other times it takes years. I don't pretend to have the wisdom to explain or understand. This is certain, if you observe consciously, you will find when a person is wrong for you. I truly believe it is easier to know if someone is not right for you than to know if someone is...I guess I’ve tried. Of course you now know what my purpose of being here is, and that I am willing to nurture this friendship to grow in the direction of a rewarding and a long lasting if not and everlasting relationship in all sincerity. Now are you in the same train? |
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| To love and to lose is one of the biggest tragedies in life, yet one fails
to see the blessing in the loss. We lose for many reasons - a death, a
divorce, a broken friendship and the end of a relationship. In that moment,
we feel our life has come to an end. How are we to go on? A piece of your
soul is taken leaving an empty hole in your heart. The question of "why me"
repeats in your mind but as the beauty of time progresses, we see the
answer. Loss makes us stronger and wiser. A loss helps us to appreciate even
the smallest, insignificant things in life. Our hearts become softer and
full of even more love than we had to begin with. A loss helps us to see
that we can't do it alone, that we need faith and hope to get us through. We
learn the mercy and grace of God. When the grieving and the healing have
taken their course, we are renewed, ready to begin a new chapter in our
lives with a whole new outlook and attitude. Only then are we able to
appreciate the lesson learned through that loss. One never forgets those we
lost, but we do learn to let go. We learn to keep living even though we
don't want to. We learn to treasure each moment and each person. In turn,
losses make our lives a lot richer. To love and lose is a tragedy, but it's
not the end of our lives. It's part of our journey. |
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